tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8473270951204999405.post5128389907215318141..comments2023-12-06T05:22:02.407-05:00Comments on Living with Grief: 'A person's a person no matter how small...'**Rose Mary Saraivahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16277954414057319565noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8473270951204999405.post-69953770309933932832011-12-19T12:04:00.050-05:002011-12-19T12:04:00.050-05:00Nancy, Thanks.
Over the years, I have seen my mom...Nancy, Thanks.<br /><br />Over the years, I have seen my mom, aunts, cousins, friends and my own daughter, struggle with the loss of a child. It is only now, after having experienced the loss of my own child, that I am beginning to slowly comprehend how so much harder it is for these parents, who feel that were not given the chance to see, hold or watch their children grow. <br /><br />My hope is that my simple message will help others recognize that hurting is hurting, and that the pain of loss is so very real, regardless of how we perceive it. I cannot personally speak to such a loss, but I speak from the voice of a mother who has lost a child.<br /><br />And like you, I find healing in sharing and it allows me to share Rachel, while missing her as well. <br /><br />Wishing you the joy, love and serenity of this Holiday Season.<br /><br />Rose Mary xoxoRose Mary Saraivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16277954414057319565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8473270951204999405.post-69699590532025978102011-12-19T11:35:10.235-05:002011-12-19T11:35:10.235-05:00Rose Mary, Thank you for this post. All grief is d...Rose Mary, Thank you for this post. All grief is difficult, but when it's not even recognized, or when it's diminished by others, the pain must be unimaginable. I've had a couple of friends who have had miscarriages and one who delivered a still born baby girl. The pain was nearly unbearable to even witness. <br /><br />Love crosses boundaries. Love brings both hurt and joy. Everyone grieves differently. Be there and say I'm sorry. We know these truths, but yet... Thanks for sharing your wisdom. Hoping you have found peace as you continue to miss Rachel.nancyspointhttp://www.nancyspoint.comnoreply@blogger.com